{"id":7141,"date":"2019-11-24T19:08:49","date_gmt":"2019-11-24T19:08:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.againstchildtrafficking.org\/?p=7141"},"modified":"2019-11-24T19:08:49","modified_gmt":"2019-11-24T19:08:49","slug":"40-years-after-adoption-danish-man-meets-his-biological-mother-in-chennai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/old.againstchildtrafficking.org\/archive\/40-years-after-adoption-danish-man-meets-his-biological-mother-in-chennai\/","title":{"rendered":"40 years after adoption, Danish man meets his biological mother in Chennai"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div class=\"field field-type-link field-field-web-address\">\n<div class=\"field-items\">\n<div class=\"field-item odd\">\n<div class=\"field-label-inline-first\">Source:\u00a0 <a class=\"ext\" style=\"background-color: #ffffff;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thehindu.com\/news\/cities\/chennai\/40-years-after-adoption-danish-man-meets-his-biological-mother-in-chennai\/article30064867.ece?fbclid=IwAR29VqRaYbuVjhkaV52oRnsVerRgmi2AZaNVL0UKXDRQLZXi2YiVfVq__PY\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">https:\/\/www.thehindu.com<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Vivek Narayanan CHENNAI, NOVEMBER 24, 2019<\/p>\n<p>David Nielsen meeting his mother Dhanalakshmi at her house in Chennai. Photo: Special Arrangement<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.againstchildtrafficking.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/David-Nielsen.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-7142\" src=\"http:\/\/www.againstchildtrafficking.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/David-Nielsen-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/old.againstchildtrafficking.org\/archive\/wp-content\/uploads\/David-Nielsen-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/old.againstchildtrafficking.org\/archive\/wp-content\/uploads\/David-Nielsen-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>David Nielsen meeting his mother Dhanalakshmi at her house in Chennai. Photo: Special Arrangement<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Dogged, transcontinental quest ends in sweet reunion.<br \/>\nA cup of mother\u2019s sweet kesari and hot coffee is joy. For David Kildendal Nielsen, it was special. He was reunited with his biological mother at her house in Manali, Chennai, on Saturday after a staggering 40 years.<\/p>\n<p>Mr. Nielsen, who lives in Denmark and was originally named Shantakumar, was born on January 25, 1978, to Dhanalakshmi and Kaliamoorthy of Washermanpet. After her husband deserted her, Ms. Dhanalakshmi and her two children \u2014 Mr. Nielsen and his brother Manuel Rajan \u2014 took refuge at a charitable home in Pallavaram in November that year.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Loses contact<\/strong><br \/>\nHowever, Ms. Dhanalakshmi was asked to vacate after a year, as the orphanage claimed her presence was making other children homesick. She would then visit her children often. But one day they were gone. The management told her that they were sent abroad so that they could lead a better life. She did not know that they had been given in adoption. After some months, her husband returned, and the couple had a third child.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis time Dhanalakshmi did not allow him to hand over the child to anyone. But the husband went missing again,\u201d said Anjali Pawar from Netherlands-based NGO Against Child Trafficking, who along with her colleague Arun Dohle helped Mr. Nielsen trace his mother.<\/p>\n<p>It was only in February 2013 that Mr. Nielsen came across documents and found he had a brother named Manuel Rajan, who was also given in adoption in Denmark.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe traced him and took a DNA test, which confirmed they were siblings,\u201d Ms. Pawar said.<\/p>\n<p>Overcome by a desire to find his biological parents, he launched a search in Chennai. Articles about him in the media caught the eye of the wife and daughter of the pastor at the Pallavaram orphanage and they sent him a picture of Ms. Dhanalakshmi.<\/p>\n<p>Armed with the old picture, Mr. Nielsen kept looking. He put up posters, hoping that his mother would see them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>TV programme helps<\/strong><br \/>\nThe breakthrough came when Ms. Dhanalakshmi\u2019s relatives saw a television programme on Mr. Nielsen\u2019s quest a few weeks ago, and contacted him. Soon, mother and son spoke on a video call.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen I met her on Saturday, she hugged me. My joy knew no bounds. The only problem was the language barrier,\u201d said Mr. Nielsen. He presented her an album with his photographs from childhood. \u201cI wanted her to know about every stage of my life,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>Mr. Nielsen is sure that Ms. Dhanalakshmi is his mother, although a DNA test is being done to confirm it.<br \/>\n<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Source:\u00a0 https:\/\/www.thehindu.com Vivek Narayanan CHENNAI, NOVEMBER 24, 2019 David Nielsen meeting his mother Dhanalakshmi at her house in Chennai. Photo: Special Arrangement David Nielsen meeting his mother Dhanalakshmi at her house in Chennai. Photo: Special Arrangement &nbsp; Dogged, transcontinental quest ends in sweet reunion. 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